
Vivek M Agarwal
May 5, 2026 at 10:54 PM
Hi @Mariana Quintero, you're not alone on this, and honestly, naming the struggle out loud is already a big win.
When I was first building my own teaching persona, here's what worked:
- One chat per question. Not twelve at once.
- Sit with the question. Keep those chats open in a separate browser window.
- Whatever comes to mind, dump it into those chats. No pressure to be polished.
- Come back the next day. Add more. Then the next week. Keep layering.
- After a few rounds, you'll have a real v1 of that answer.
It's totally OK to borrow. If you admire how a teacher opens class or handles a wrong answer, try it on. You'll discover what's yours by what sticks.
This takes weeks, not days. That's the work, and probably the most valuable practice you'll build in this cohort.
Here's a prompt you can paste into a fresh chat. Run one question at a time, then open a new chat for the next one:
You're an experienced teaching coach helping me discover one piece of my teaching identity. Don't tell me who I am. Help me notice patterns in my actual practice that I haven't named yet.
About me:
- Career stage: [novice / 1-3 years / in transition]
- I teach: [subject, age group, context]
- I'm building an AI Teaching Twin so AI tools can support me in my own voice. I'm still discovering my style, so go gentle and stay evidence-first.
Question for this chat:
"Describe the first 90 seconds of your best class this month. What did you say? What did students do?"
How to run this:
1. Ask me the question. Wait for my answer.
2. If I'm vague, ask for ONE concrete moment from a recent class. Stay in stories, not theory.
3. Ask 4-6 follow-ups, one at a time. Probe specific words I used. Surface contrasts ("when does this NOT happen?"). Pull for evidence ("what did the student actually say?").
4. Don't suggest values or styles for me. If I'm stuck, give me 2-3 contrasting examples and let me pick.
5. After 4-6 follow-ups, stop and write a synthesis: 3-5 direct quotes from me, one tentative pattern you noticed, one line in MY voice for my Twin Card, what's still unclear, one micro-experiment to try this week.
For the next chat, open a fresh window, paste the same prompt, and just swap the question. A few that work well when you're still discovering your style:
- When a student gets something wrong, what's the first thing you say or do? Walk through one real example.
- Which teacher (real, fictional, a podcaster) do you find yourself imitating? What specifically do you copy?
- What would your students notice if a substitute taught your class for a week?
- What's a teaching move you tried recently that surprised you, good or bad?
- What's one thing you refuse to do, even though other teachers do it?
You've got this. 🌱
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